• underscores@lemmy.zip
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    13 days ago

    I think one of the issues couples have with cleaning is that everyone has different schedules and approaches

    I never clean during weekdays, sorry but work fucks me up and when I come home I want all relaxation

    When the weekend starts after my Saturday morning I’ll go on a quick cleaning binge, and then Sunday night I do another clean binge and repeat

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      13 days ago

      I think, there are some things that can’t “wait”, dishes, always after meal. I never want to arrive in my kitchen and it’s full of dirty dishes.

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      13 days ago

      The issue is people assume their way is the only right way and when someone does it differently they interpret it as lazy or malicious, rather than responding with humility and trying to find out how their partner thinks.