For me clean shaved is my preference but calling it a deal break is a bit extreme. I fully understand that hair is natural and the idea of being perfectly shaven at all times is basically impossible. Hair grows both slower and way faster than we expect and the “fresh shaved” part only lasts for a day. As for why it’s a strong preference; I love giving oral but hair in my mouth is not good. Like I might vomit with gusto and force on a hair trigger not good. (Pun intended)
…That’s not me. I have not looked over that but I’m sure there are some errors in there. I just spent more time than it would admit typing that all up.
Yeah and not one bit of AI. I have yet to really set up lemmy on my desktop, maybe I’ll do that today, still trying to understand how it works as it’s a bit more effort compared to reddit.
Np, if I grow a pair maybe I’ll actually make a video. (Pun intended)
Sure do, love giving oral but hate hair in/near my mouth. Since I would request a partner shave for me I figured I would return the favor without being asked since I love receiving just as much.
Huh I’ve thought about making one and putting it up on porn hub but figured someone already had.
I’ve been shaving for decades thought. I use a Harry’s razor (way cheaper than “premo” bs brands and works just as well) Don’t use shitty disposable razors.
Use a CREAM shaving cream like “Cremo” not the foam crap. In a pinch hair conditioner can work but it’s not good either.
If it’s your first time trim it as short as you can before shaving. But never use an electric trimmer near and loose skin.
Rinse the blades often build up means they aren’t working.
The more times you pass over the same patch of skin the more irritated it will get.
Do not rush.
It’s easiest in the shower.
The main way to cut youself will be pressing to hard on the blade. But the way that will always cut you is letting the blade slide sideways. To avoid this alway lift your blade off your skin once done with a stroke or if you have to stop a stroke.
Shave regularly. It’s easier to keep it up rather than redo it. I find every other day or every 3rd day works for me. If you put it off more than 5 days you’re in regrowth danger zone. It will get itchy and if you scratch it you will end up with a sort of rash from irritation. If that happens it’s probably the worst time to shave because your skin will be bumpy. If you do shave it will relieve the irritation but you need to be extra careful.
Also as much as you want to be smoooooth it ain’t going to happen. Petting with the grain will be smooth but full prickle removal is basically impossible. I can get mely nuts fairly smooth with much effort and practice but the pubic patch is a no go. Maybe it’s just me but the one time I did try to go against the grain in my pubic area it was smooth for a day and then irritated to hell and I ended up with bad ingrown hairs. Not worth it.
This part is main for males everything above applies to anyone I would assume.
Cold water = Shrinkage but can also make shaving easier for someone new. However because your sack is all scrunched up you’re much more likely to have a patchy shave.
Warm water = Loose skin. This can make shaving trickier but is easier to get all the areas.
Don’t be afraid to stretch that shit out like a paint canvas just make sure you have a firm grip before shaving a stroke.
Anyway hope this helps kinda just info dumped while laying in bed so might forgot something. feel free to ask questions.
It’s not a problem in the sense that you can “fix” it. If you try really hard you can train yourself to notice when you jump mental tracks then possibly steer yourself back to the main line. At the same time even if you have if it’s a topic you’re really excited about? pfffff good fucking luck. Other external factors can also make it next to impossible to do anything about.
That’s just how our brains work.
Honestly some of the best conversations I’ve had were with my best friend who also has ADHD. Good fucking luck following those conversations if you aren’t neurospicy. We just embrace that we are enjoying the conversation so it does matter if the conversation started about D&D and 10 min later we are talking about tacos being to salty. -shrug- we will probably get back to D&D if we are exposed to the stimulus that started the conversation.
Might want to look into getting tested for ADHD if this resonates with you. This is a more accurate representation of how our brains work than the old “squirrel” joke.
Only beef I have with steam off the top of my head.
Make it so I OWN my games if a dev isn’t okay with that they can sell somewhere else.
Reverse you decision on steam account not being transferreable/inheritable
Probably others but those are the two I think of.
Spyware in video games now?
Vote with your wallet yall.
It’s never okay. This is the pathetic form of a defense mechanism that people with fragile egos use because their confidence is so weak that being told no is too much.
That person is not a friend and had clearly stated out loud how abusive they would be.
This is something I wish I could do since the tactile results are so much better.
Sadly as a person with sensitive skin and also the dreaded ingrown hair issue I can confidently that if you are like me this is an awful idea.
Shaving will normally not give you ingrown hairs so long as you shave WITH the grain.
I only have myself as a sample size so I don’t know how reliable this info is but if you’re unsure of you get ingrowns try shaving your normal areas against the grain and see if you get any. I have shaved my face and even head once before and it didn’t seem to matter where I did it the issue was persistent.