Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
Dont have sex with assholes. Because while you stood your ground regarding the use of barriers, afterwards you obviously still feel bad and unsure about yourself. Also if you meet him again, he most likely will keep pushing you to not use a condom.
Also the way the dude acted makes me assume he actually sucks at sex, because he seems selfish, inconsiderate and also uneductated regarding safer sex practices.