I agree on this. I just commented on my AvPD, which makes social contacts … complicated (just look in my comment history).

I haven’'t been without a partner since i was 18. Im 46 now, and newly out of a relationship (but we had a good run). I never actually tried to flirt with anyone. The only thing i really did is to listen well, make appropriate compliments and give my input. I don’t even look good, I’ve been a fat fuck since childhood and a nerd on top. I’ve even had to turn down advances a few times.