Sorry if not using the correct language.

  • forty2@lemmy.world
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    My best guess…

    From “skeletons in the closet”. Colloquially, meaning to have secrets.

  • TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com
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    It was illegal to be a gay male in England.

    Being gay required living two lives … and one of them you had to keep in the closet. One life had to act straight and maybe even have a “beard” to appear straight.

    But the other life, being gay, required some level of putting away one part of one’s being for safety.

  • 11111one11111@lemmy.world
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    Like you want the community to describe why hiding in a closet is a place to hid and a garage basement, bedroom, etc are all room of which would have a place like a closet to hide in.

    Has nothjng to do with the closet to my knowledge and was always just being about hiding.

  • protist@mander.xyz
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    The pre-1950s focus was on entrance into “a new world of hope and communal solidarity”, whereas the post-Stonewall Riots overtone was an exit from the oppression of the closet.[15] This change in focus suggests that “coming out of the closet” is a mixed metaphor that joins “coming out” with the closet metaphor: an evolution of “skeleton in the closet” specifically referring to living a life of denial and secrecy by concealing one’s sexual orientation. The closet metaphor, in turn, is extended to the forces and pressures of heterosexist society and its institutions.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coming_out