• dangling_cat@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    Life when you fully understand gender and sexual orientation is a completely made up concept. You just need to be the true self and embrace that life is short and be confident to express your feelings.

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      3 days ago

      Out of curiosity, if it’s all completely made up, how would you explain the fact that people across different cultures and time periods consistently report similar patterns in sexual orientation? That suggests there’s something deeper going on than just social invention.

      That said, I completely agree with you on being authentic — I just think the “completely made up” part might be a stretch

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        Its a construct made up based on the needs and perceotions of primitive peoples. Id explain it the same way id explain patterns/similarities/trends in mythology and language across cultures that had no contact. That doesnt make it ‘real’ any more than ‘mama’ is the true word for ‘mother’

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          3 days ago

          Sorry, not really following your mama analogy. It sounds like that’s just a variant of mother, which is, of course, has a very real meaning.

          I think it’s more like colour: the boundaries (like where blue becomes green) are kind of made up, but the spectrum itself is real. Same idea here—the labels can vary, but the underlying experience isn’t just invented.

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            It comes up a lot in a lot of languages because its a very easy combination of phonemes for a human tomake even without much motor control. Parents like to think baby is talking about them.

            So even in completely unrelated languages words for some stuff are cognates at a statistically unlikely rate.